One Day Believe me, you can Just because you enjoy the occasional (well, maybe more than the occasional) casual sex, doesn’t mean that you’re not entitled to a romantic relationship Be patient – take your time Here’s what I said before to someone with similar predicament as you You Stage 2 Preoccupation The person you’re falling for is constantly in your thoughts You overfill your coffee cup because you’re thinking about them, your eyes glaze over in class or during a meeting at work because you’re trying to determine your next step You miss a deadline because you were thinking about how they looked the last Fall in love with someone who will never let you go to sleep wondering if you still matter meaning